What are some clubs/parties I can go to meet mtf women in NYC?

I am going to make an umption here with your name and question, that you are a M2F as well. I personally do not limit myself to LGBT clubs. I go where ever I want to go. If you do a quick google search you will find some outdated information, but some of the clubs on Christopher St, and In the village will do "trans nights" There is one specific trans bar on christopher st near the stonewall. Cant think of the name if it to save my life, but it never appealed to me when I went. If you go to the stone wall in, you can ask in there. You can also find support groups all over the city. As Ghost Wolf said, most of us don't walk around with a "Hi IM Transual" T-Shirt on. IN most of the "trans bars" you will find mostly cross dressers, and drag queens. If you are and looking for a support group, drop your email, and ill get you some more info